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From their perspective, if they didn’t love you they wouldn’t be with you, so because they have chosen to be with you, they expect you to see this as evidence of their love. Most of their time will be spent focused on what they are interested in and when they talk to people they want to talk about their interest, often for many hours expecting everyone to be as interested in the subject as they are.They often have very little time for talking about anything else and can be blunt with people about how they are boring them when others start talking about a different topic.Those with autism want love and affection as much as anyone else, but they don’t necessarily have the social skills to know what to do in a relationship, so they are either likely to try to do what they want to do, and at times may behave inappropriately or misread signals, or they are likely to want you to take control in the relationship and instigate love and affection. Some things may not cross their mind; they can focus on their interests so much that they forget to pay you attention, so you need to get their attention and instigate the affection.
They may wear the same clothes every day, year after year, rather than update their wardrobe.
Or if you tell them to wait a minute, they will assume you literally mean wait for one minute.
For many with autism they see things as being black and white; things are either good or bad and they can overreact to things going to extremes.
Their responses can hurt your feelings, but when they give you praise, or say they like something, it means so much because you know they mean it.
If they tell you they love you, then they truly, honestly love you, because if they didn’t they would tell you this, and wouldn’t be with you.